Losing a tooth is a childhood rite of passage. Not only is it a huge milestone for kids, but it’s also a big deal for parents, too. It’s one more sign that your child is growing up before your eyes.
Despite the excitement, the loose and wiggly tooth stage often prompts many questions from parents. Although some anxiety is totally normal, there’s no reason to be scared about the normal process of losing baby teeth and making way for new permanent teeth.
In this article, we’ll answer the top questions we hear in our office and give you some helpful tips, so you can help your child say bye-bye to baby teeth with confidence.
Primary teeth, also called baby teeth, are the small, temporary teeth that fill your child’s smile from about 6 months to 6 years. While these teeth aren’t around for long, they serve an important purpose. Primary teeth help your child chew, speak, and develop jaw muscles. They also hold space in your child’s gums to guide their developing adult teeth into the right place.
Even though primary teeth eventually fall out, taking care of them still matters. It’s important to establish healthy dental habits, like regular dental checkups and a teeth-brushing routine, early to set kids up for lifelong oral health. Unhealthy primary teeth also get in the way of function and can be painful.
It’s normal to have questions about your child’s dental health. Here are our answers to some of the most common questions we hear about losing baby teeth.
Though every child is different, most kids begin to lose their primary teeth around age 6. Some may start sooner or a little later. Kids often lose their teeth in the same order they came in, but in reverse. Usually, kids will lose one of their two front top teeth first, and they’ll continue losing the rest of their primary teeth until about age 12 or 13. If your child hasn’t lost a primary tooth at all by age 8, it’s a good idea to have a conversation with the dentist.
The timeline for a new permanent tooth to grow in varies from kid to kid. Typically, however, you’ll start to see a new tooth erupting where the primary tooth fell out within a few weeks or months.
Waiting for a new tooth to come in requires some patience. The process might be longer than you think. Sometimes, it takes 6 months to a year for the new tooth to fully grow in. If you notice the gap in your child’s smile staying much longer, bring it up at your child’s next dental visit.
It’s best to let your child’s tooth fall out naturally. Loose primary teeth will gradually get looser over time until they more or less fall out on their own. Pulling a tooth out too early can cause your child unnecessary pain, bruising, or excessive bleeding.
If there’s a clinical reason to remove the tooth sooner, your dentist might recommend an extraction. This might be appropriate if there’s a risk of infection, if the baby tooth is getting in the way of the new permanent tooth coming in correctly, or if your child is in a lot of pain from the primary tooth. Talk to your dentist if you have questions on your child’s condition.
Some sensitivity and discomfort is common after a primary tooth falls out. While there are no specific food limitations, you might consider feeding your child a softer diet for a few days until the sensitivity fades. Continue your normal brushing routine with a soft-bristle toothbrush, avoiding the gap where the baby tooth feel out. After a couple of days, when the area where the primary tooth was heals, you can brush the gums gently there too.
Helping your child navigate losing primary teeth can be daunting, but it doesn’t have to be. Try these simple tips to make the entire process more exciting and less scary for you and your kid.
As with anything, it’s a good idea to have conversations about what your child might experience before it actually happens. Talk to your child about the role of their primary teeth and why gaining permanent teeth is so exciting. Emphasize the importance of taking care of both sets of teeth, especially the “big kid” teeth they’ll wear as part of their smile throughout adulthood! Try to avoid comparison and rushing the process. Every child’s teeth are on a different timeline, so it’s okay if one child lost his first tooth at age 5 and another didn’t lose a tooth until age 7.
When your child notices a “wiggly” tooth, start checking in from time to time to make sure he or she isn’t experiencing too much pain or bleeding. A cold washcloth can be a great comfort for soreness. Rinsing with water and using clean gauze can also be helpful for bleeding. Remember that your reaction sets the tone for your child. Try to frame the entire process as exciting rather than scary, while validating their concerns or anxieties about this new experience.
Many families choose to celebrate losing primary teeth with a visit from the tooth fairy! This is a fantastic time to create your own family tradition. Whether your tooth fairy leaves little notes and toys or money, the tooth fairy is a great way to make the experience of losing baby teeth exciting for your child.
If your child is nearing the age of losing baby teeth, call our office to learn more about Douglas, the tooth fairy’s favorite pet monster. With resources to teach your child about healthy teeth habits, a special tooth fairy kit, and pet Douglas tooth pillow, we have everything you need to help plan your tooth fairy visit.
We’re always happy to answer your questions or weigh in if you’re concerned about something related to your child’s dental health. Here are a few reasons to call our office and get a dentist’s opinion on your child’s condition:
We’re always here to help you navigate questions and concerns about your kid’s smile.
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